Manners make the Man

Say Please and Thank you

Good manners will open more doors than even the best pick-up lines.

Let that sink in for a second...

Girls tend to categorize the guys they meet.  Most typical guys are thrown into a pile with all the other men that appear similar to that given girl.  The whole point is to avoid that category.  You want to be placed in a group above what is considered "typical".  

This all starts with the way you act in a social environment.  There's no need for crass humor or back-handed compliments.  Just simply remember to say please, and thank you.  The best way you can present yourself to a girl or anyone for that matter is through your manners.

When it comes to a girl youre interested in, a girl you're dating or your girlfriend you can show your status as a gentleman through a bunch of very simple and easy things.

Here's just a few...

Open the door for her!  This can be your car door, or the door to your home when she comes over to meet your parents.  

Introduce her to your friends!  Your friends care about you and want to meet the girl who's making you happy.  Include her in conversation and let her know she's welcome among your group.  

Shower her with compliments!  No girl doesn't like to be told she looks beautiful.  Use your words and let her know how special she is.  Don't spill your heart out all at once!  Baby steps is the key.

Pay the bill!  If she's the right type of girl, she'll offer to pay.  She's working, independent, and has her own money, even so, pay the bill.  Some methods of being old fashion are still useful today.  You ask her out, you pay the bill.  It's as easy as that.

It's the little things that matter!  Small acts of kindness add up into a much larger picture.  Leave a note on her car, make her dinner, send her that text before bed and in the morning, when you invite her over for a movie make a fort in the living room to watch it in!  The small things that make her smile will come back around!

A gentleman never rushes his girl.  Go at her pace.  You want your girl to feel comfortable around you.  This takes time and trust.  When she's ready to take the next step, it's your job to take it with her.

"Reality attracts the eye, but personality captures the heart."

Remember to say please and thank you!  Show your status as a gentleman but acting, speaking, and dressing like one.  Manners make the man!